All 18 Enneagram Wings Explained (Quick + Clear Overview)

A deep dive into the wing pairing combinations of the Enneagram! If you threw a party full of Enneagram Sevens, you’d get a wild mix of personalities — and that’s because wings dramatically shape how each type shows up in the world. In this video, I walk through all 18 Enneagram wing combinations, giving you a quick, clear overview of how each wing flavors its core type. You’ll learn how wings add nuance, depth, and “salt and pepper” to your main Enneagram number — and how they influence your behavior, strengths, challenges, and emotional patterns. Whether you’re brand‑new to wings or trying to understand the people in your life, this video gives you a complete snapshot of every wing pairing. FIND YOUR ENNEAGRAM TYPE: My Enneagram Journal: https://amzn.to/4pPFAsh Free Enneagram Test: https://abbeyhowe.com/free-enneagram-test Free Typing Guide: https://abbeyhowe.com/freebie-or-enneagram-typing-guide-pdf Another *Test I Like: http://truity.com/?a=2788847 What Do the Numbers Mean?: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzfQqRU3ejjc3j9we62jKxO8bf6f3cdCu FURTHER RESOURCES: https://youtu.be/fgQf6dVGAQI https://youtu.be/fVCyPAA-9N8 https://youtu.be/bk4ZKDJtk0c How Enneagram Wings Work: https://talkenneagram.substack.com/p/how-enneagram-wings-actually-work 9 Wings Explained: https://abbeyhowe.com/blogs/enneagram/enneagram-wings/ Free Enneagram Wings PDF: https://abbeyhowe.com/freebie-or-enneagram-wings-guide-pdf BOOKS I RECOMMEND: My Enneagram Workbook* https://amzn.to/3UIGV7v The Honest Enneagram* https://amzn.to/3zsVRgp The Road Back To You* https://amzn.to/3QpEW4D The Enneagram for Black Liberation* https://amzn.to/3NErLea The 9 Types of Leadership* https://amzn.to/3aGvjxU The Enneagram at Work* https://amzn.to/3MKOMek TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 – Intro: Why wings make each type unique 00:29 – What Enneagram wings are (salt + pepper analogy) 01:07 – Balanced wings vs. dominant wings 01:24 – Abby’s example: 3w4 creativity + ambition TYPE 1 WINGS 02:46 – 1w9: The Idealist 03:15 – 1w2: The Advocate TYPE 2 WINGS 03:38 – 2w1: The Servant 04:06 – 2w3: The Host TYPE 3 WINGS 04:41 – 3w2: The Star 05:08 – 3w4: The Professional TYPE 4 WINGS 05:40 – 4w3: The Aristocrat 06:12 – 4w5: The Bohemian TYPE 5 WINGS 06:52 – 5w4: The Iconoclast 07:32 – 5w6: The Problem Solver TYPE 6 WINGS 07:58 – 6w5: The Defender 08:18 – 6w7: The Buddy TYPE 7 WINGS 08:53 – 7w6: The Entertainer 09:25 – 7w8: The Realist TYPE 8 WINGS 09:50 – 8w7: The Maverick 10:20 – 8w9: The Bear TYPE 9 WINGS 10:42 – 9w8: The Comfort Seeker 11:12 – 9w1: The Dreamer ABOUT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/@AbbeyHowe?sub_confirmation+1 Hi! I’m Abbey Howe, certified Enneagram Coach and author of “My Enneagram” an approachable, playful journal designed to help you embark on an empowering journey of self-discovery. On this channel, I playfully hold up a mirror to reveal your personality and help you feel less alone. A happy life relies on your ability to understand yourself and others better. Through typology and self-compassion, my goal is to help you discover YOU. #enneagramwithAbbey #enneagram #enneagramtypes Want to host a fun and insightful Enneagram workshop for your team? Let's chat! https://abbeyhowe.com/services SAY HELLO: Everything in one place: https://abbeyhowe.com/ The Monthly Enneagram Digest: https://abbeyhowe.com/freebie-or-the-monthly-enneagram-digest Substack: https://talkenneagram.substack.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/abbeyhowe/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enneagramwithabbey/ Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/enneagramwithabbey/ Threads: https://www.threads.com/@enneagramwithabbey TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abbey_howe Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/Enneagram_with_Abbey/ FTC DISCLAIMER: This video is not sponsored! Links in this description marked with a * are affiliate links which means I may receive a small commission if you purchase something. There is no additional charge to you. Thank you for supporting my channel so I can continue to provide you with free content each week! 🎶 Music by Epidemic Sound 🎶