Who is right?!?!

Okay, I need your help on who is right and who is wrong! My friend is in a problem and here's what she wrote read and comment! Please and thank you!! Okay, I've had enough. I have a friend, who shall remain nameless (BECAUSE I'M ACTUALLY A NICE PERSON), who is just really.... She's just really pushing my buttons. Yeah. Lets say that. If you know who I mean or have an idea of who I'm talking about, DON'T. SAY. THEIR NAME. I don't want this problem getting worse. I really don't. I don't want 'senseless bloodshed' as some call it. Were just in this huge fight right now, and it's based off on events that happened yesterday. Won't get into detail, let's just say this person, a few of my other friends and I were playing a game and she started acting very, very rude to us. I tried to get my point across by saying 'Don't talk to _______ that way. It's rude.' and I felt that was enough. In a journal she posted, she said something about an 'idiotic friend'. I thought she was talking about someone, who will not be named, that I told about the incident. I was trying to be nice. So today, I'm trying to help her deal with a problem. She starts talking about stuff. I have no idea what she's talking about. I ask her what she means, and she starts cussing at me, saying things like 'YOU DON'T ****ING REMEMBER?!', so I reply, 'Remember what?!' then she says something about a voting. I had no idea what she meant, so I asked her what the voting was. She brings up an incedent that heppend probably 2 or 3 YEARS AGO. Here's what it said, word for word, no names though: THE DAY ______ SHOUTED OUT THAT YOU JORDAN AND HE HAD A VOTING ON WHO WANTED ME TO CHANGE, AND YOU SAID THAT WAS SUPOSE TO BE A SECRET AND YOU VOTED YOU WANTED ME TO CHANGE ALONG WITH ______ AND ______ WAS THE ONLY PERSON WHO DID NOT WANT ME TO CHANGE, I REMEMBER IT AND I SCREAMED AT YOU AND CARLOS THIS: WHY CAN'T YOU ACCEPT ME FOR WHO I AM, YOU CAN'T CHANGE ME, YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHANGE ME. I ALSO REMEMBER YOU COMING OVER TO THE BENCH I WAS SITTING ON TRYING TO COMFORT ME AND I SCREAMED AT YOU TO GO AWAY AND YOU DID, I SCREAMED AT ______ AND ______ TO GO AWAY TO AND ______ WAS THE ONLY ONE THAT HAD TO GUTS TO SPEAK TO ME OR ABOUT ME NICELY, ______ KEEPED SAYING WHAT'S HER PROBLEM. NOW YOU BETTER REMEMBER. YOU WERE THE WORST THING THAT DAY. ------------ So now you know what's going on. That happened what, 3 years ago? Plus, Try to change you? Okay, so that was an idea at the time. How old was I? 10? 9? I'm 13 now. And YOU tell ME not to try and change you? I RARELY complain aout you're attitude. I've been nice for as long as I can stand, and I still am being nice. I'm not cussing you out. I didn't start bringing up past events until you did. AND, I was the worst thing that day? I didn't bring up the fact we wanted you to change. I tried to freaking comfort you!!!!! Plus, at the time I had a freaking RIGHT to want you to change. At the time you PUNCHED me HARD each time I accidently interrupted your sentence when I thought you were done. When we were hanging out, you'd get angry at me for the smallest things, and sometimes you didn't even know why you were angry at me when my mom talked to you. You took almost all your freaking anger out on me. Do you even KNOW how much that emotionally damaged me? It's has permanantly SCARRED me. You were the FIRST friend I had I believe, and since then I was SCARED to make more friends because I though a lot of people were like that. I didn't like it. I asked you to stop a few times, but you never did. You don't do these things to me much anymore, but it happens once in a blue moon, and I'm done with it. Plus, what else is that YOU are trying to change ME. Each time I enter your freaking house, you force me to remove my spiked collar. You sometimes complain to me that I'm not the same person that you met when you were FIVE. I was seven freaking years old when I've met you. That was SIX years ago. People change, and if you don't like me for who I am and you keep trying to make me change my personality, find another friend. I'm NOT changing. I'm fine the way I am, thank you very much. So other than the person I'm irritated with, who do YOU guys think should change? I'll post a poll soon. Am I right? Am I wrong? I need some help here. My mother and father raised me to be a very reasonable person, but I'm not too sure now. Help me out guys. Please. I'm feeling broken.