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Roxcy Pearl O'Neal Bolton (June 3, 1926 – May 17, 2017) was a pioneering American feminist, civil rights activist, and women's rights advocate, often called Florida's "Pioneer Feminist" and the "Founding Mother" of the state's modern feminist movement. en.wikipedia.org Early LifeBorn Roxcy O'Neal in Duck Hill, Mississippi, to a pioneer settler family (her father was a farmer and her mother a schoolteacher), she grew up in a rural environment where only a few of her siblings survived infancy. She had limited formal education (a high school degree) but became known for her scrappy, determined style. In 1960, she married U.S. Navy Commander David Bolton (who later supported the Equal Rights Amendment as president of "Men for ERA"). The couple lived in places like Japan and Charleston, South Carolina, before settling in Coral Gables, Florida, in 1964 after his retirement. They raised four children (she was predeceased by one son). floridamemory.com Activism and Key Contributions Bolton became active in the women's rights movement in the 1960s. She was one of the first Florida women to join the National Organization for Women (NOW) after its founding in 1966. She founded and served as the first president of the Miami-Dade (Dade County) chapter of NOW in 1968, and in 1969 she was elected national vice president of NOW. She later left NOW in 1976 over disagreements, including the creation of a lesbian caucus. en.wikipedia.org Her activism focused on practical and policy changes for women's equality:Access to public spaces: In 1969, she successfully challenged "men-only" sections in department store lunchrooms (e.g., at Burdines and Jordan Marsh in Miami), arguing against gender segregation in everyday life. Hurricane naming: After a series of female-named storms hit Florida in the late 1960s, she pressured the National Weather Service to stop using only women's names for hurricanes, helping lead to a more neutral alternating system. Equal Rights Amendment (ERA): She was a strong supporter, convincing U.S. Senator Birch Bayh to hold the first congressional hearings on the ERA in 1970. She organized marches, lobbied in Florida (where it repeatedly failed to pass), and encouraged President Richard Nixon to proclaim Women's Equality Day in 1972. Support for victims of violence: In 1972, she founded Women in Distress, Florida's first shelter for battered and homeless women, providing temporary housing, legal aid, and services. In 1974, she helped establish the nation's first Rape Treatment Center at Jackson Memorial Hospital in Miami (renamed the Roxcy Bolton Rape Treatment Center in 1993), which pioneered specialized care for sexual assault victims and influenced similar programs nationwide. Other efforts: She pushed for more women in policy-making and government jobs, helped create Commissions on the Status of Women in Florida and local counties, opened the influential Tiger Bay political club to women, started one of the state's first neighborhood Crime Watch programs in Coral Gables, and advocated for equal pay and better police responses to sexual assault. floridamemory.com She was known for her bold, tireless, and sometimes "tempestuous" approach—taking NOW's message directly to county commissioners, university presidents, and other officials.Later Life, Recognition, and LegacyBolton received several honors, including induction into the Florida Women's Hall of Fame in 1984. Other recognitions came from the National Women's History Project (2014), Miami Woman's Club, and Miami-Dade Parks. A Women's Park in Miami-Dade County also honors her contributions. flwomenshalloffame.org She continued advocating into her later years despite health challenges. She died on May 17, 2017, at age 90 in Coral Gables, Florida (some sources note cardiac arrest). Her legacy lives on through institutions like the Roxcy Bolton Rape Treatment Center and Women in Distress, as well as broader changes in how society addresses domestic violence, sexual assault, and gender equity. She is remembered as a trailblazer who proved "one person can make a difference" in South Florida and nationally. cbsnews.com Her story highlights the grassroots activism of the second-wave feminist movement, blending local action with national impact.