Table of contents:
0:28 - High regard and esteem
0:57 - The self-referential and transformative side of respect
1:55 - "Respect" that takes the form of hierarchical dominance through fear and obedience
2:56 - Unconditional respect vs. Conditional respect
4:01 - Why unconditional respect isn't realistic
6:38 - Why insisting on unconditional respect is self-defeating
8:38 - Why people insist on unconditional respect
10:29 - How earning other people's respect solves a lot of problems
12:11 - Respect and authenticity: The problem of pretending
15:41 - Respect and happiness: How to consummate our existence